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AliZee'
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PostPosted: Tue May 27, 2003 10:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

good advice foxx....girls dont bring nuthin but drama to your life...enjoy being single while you still are coz one day your gonna have a woman in your life and it wont be your life anymore icon_evil.gif
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PostPosted: Tue May 27, 2003 10:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Oh Geez lets not get this started! Every guy will be on here telling us his worrys and woe's. icon_rolleyes.gif
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PostPosted: Tue May 27, 2003 10:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i got women worrys and woes for you...
Waukeen left me and turned her back on me...
*sniff* icon_cry.gif *sniff*
now i dont have anymore Gold... icon_cry.gif
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PostPosted: Tue May 27, 2003 10:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

No wonder considering you and Selven adressed her as HE back in the old days! icon_mrgreen.gif
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PostPosted: Tue May 27, 2003 10:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

What about women? Don't you think we have relationship issues to? We do. Let me tell you... OMG. I am seriously confused and messed up. I am about to leave my husband and get a divorice... And I am dating someone I met on Dyso... Let me tell you, it never gets easier. Relationships don't grow on trees they require a ton of work. But it takes work from both sides. If she doesn't want it then nothing you can do will make her want it.
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PostPosted: Tue May 27, 2003 10:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

*from a womans point of view*

Shin, She seems like she cares enough about your friendship to be honest with you. Would you rather her lie and lead you on and break your heart later down the road? or would you like to be good friends with her and gain a valuable friend for life? She sounds sincere when she said she didn't want to cause you more pain than what she knew you were already under at the time, but she respected you enough to talk to you about it, and be honest. Get to know her as a friend, you can never have to many of those, and who knows maybe one day it might turn into more, or it might lead you to a road where she is a great friend and confidant who you can turn to when you need a shoulder to lean on. Let time and nature take its course, Don't play games, it just leads to heartache.

There are plenty of females out there, don't give up when one turns you down.
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PostTue 05/27/03 10:40pm
hehe, that's what I told him on MSN last night...  Reply with quote
 
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PostPosted: Tue May 27, 2003 10:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I don't know whether I should laugh or cry at this.
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PostPosted: Tue May 27, 2003 11:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

seriously though....a relationship can only be as strong as tha friendship its built on
Great friends who know everything about eachother and then fall in love have a much happier relationship then those who just go on dates and then get hitched after a couple years...
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PostPosted: Wed May 28, 2003 1:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Amen Ali, that's a perfect way to celebrate Shin's return!

icon_lol.gif What's the topic?
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PostPosted: Wed May 28, 2003 4:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

AliZee' wrote:
seriously though....a relationship can only be as strong as tha friendship its built on
Great friends who know everything about eachother and then fall in love have a much happier relationship then those who just go on dates and then get hitched after a couple years...


Yup, as I said, don't rush into things. Don't pretend you have something there only to make yourself feel better because its only going to **** you over later on in life, I promise! As for me, well, there IS one girl who I really want to go out with, her name is Andrea and she is a police officer who comes into my gas station all the time. She is 25, which is six years older than me. It sucks though.. because she doesn't like younger guys, only older. And she likes my uncle! (Who is 40 years old!!! icon_eek.gif ) I asked her out on a date once, and I kind of hid it (ask about it and I will tell you more), but regardless, she avoided me. I wasn't hurt, but I wasn't feeling good. I know that there are lots of women out there, and I'm not gonna sit in my own little world pretending that she likes me when she really doesn't. That will only cause depression and disappointment for ever...
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PostWed 05/28/03 5:48am
~! icon_cry.gif !~

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PostPosted: Wed May 28, 2003 5:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Shin2k wrote:
Im taking it easy now, with all this stuff.... I'm sick of being rejected. Ill just fall in love with my pillow ^_^ Seriously?
I dont know what to do, except to stay calm, breath slowly and stay alive. I talked with her about all this yesterday... and uhm... I just dont understand whats wrong with me icon_sad.gif icon_cry.gif Ah well.... life goes on I guess.

Maybe your pillow is playing hard to get?
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PostWed 05/28/03 6:35am
Polygamy is one wife too many.

Monogamy is the same icon_eek.gif
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PostPosted: Wed May 28, 2003 7:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Heheh Palladium. Though I think I have to disagree too. All my life I have tried to prove wrong this saying: "Men are pigs !" Only to find out that this saying: "Women are cows !" Holds true more then I would like to admit.

Seriously, women aren't any better than men. They're just the same icon_wink.gif
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PostPosted: Wed May 28, 2003 4:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Maybe Shin you should get your mind OFF of women for awhile. Think of something you can do for YOURSELF rather than for someone else. You seem like you need it more than anyone else right now.
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PostPosted: Wed May 28, 2003 4:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Think of it as a percentage game. You have to go out and keep selling your self. You don't just give up after one bad moment.. Learn from this and move on. But you must keep trying and trying and trying. You have to get over your problems with rejection. Now it's time to move on and ask another and ask another no matter how many shoot you down. Then one day...Bingo! Then you'll have a new set of problems to deal with.
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PostPosted: Wed May 28, 2003 4:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hehe... heres one Ive always liked...If you ask a woman out and she refuses...say:

"You shouldn't be so picky...I wasn't"

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PostWed 05/28/03 4:54pm
~! icon_cry.gif !~

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PostPosted: Wed May 28, 2003 4:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sep wrote:

"You shouldn't be so picky...I wasn't"

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Oh now that is good icon_razz.gif Real good!
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PostPosted: Wed May 28, 2003 5:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Shin2k,

Welcome back! I'm so sorry to hear about all the events that transpired in such a short while, but I'm also inspired by all of the good thoughts that the Dyso community had for you.

We can talk about the details sometime, but I had an extremely horrid year five years ago that included many of the events you raised. Among them were the fact that two people were hospitalized, my fiancee had left me for another person, and I had just learned that my parents were going to divorce. I spent many long nights, crying and sleepless.

One night, I had an epiphany. I was thinking of what would happen if I were to lose another loved one that year. I counted up all of the horrible things that year (there were many more than I listed). Suddenly, I realized that I loved life and that I really wanted to keep living.

I realize one more thing, one thing that I am very proud of. I survived.

You have tasted some of the worst of life. You're surviving it. My advice is to be patient with yourself and others. Be proud of yourself and know that you have friends around the world who care about you.

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PostPosted: Wed May 28, 2003 5:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I love Tae, anyone who hurts Tae will have to go through me!
Seriously Tae, you've been so supportive for me, I'm so happy I met you a long time ago... and am so glad your still here *big hugglewuggle* =P
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PostWed 05/28/03 6:35pm
huggle...wuggle.....?  Reply with quote
 
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lol,yep tae is an amazing person icon_biggrin.gif  Reply with quote
 
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PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2003 4:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I really like this thread,

because really nice, funny and very serious things were discussed here. Especially one post has touched me hard.
Anyway I have noticed, that several members of the dysotopian player community get engaged here in a very emotional manner. Some have even posted their pictures.
I dont want to be a kill-joy, but this place here is far away from beeing private or beeing accessible for a small group of persons only. Anyone, even a webcrawler, can read the posts here. Maybe guests should not be granted any access to the posts as a first step. I think, some people dont want to address the world with their topics, they want to address the community of active players and posters only.
As Jon said in one of his former posts: asking does not hurt. If someone wants to know more about another person or share some thoughts concerning life, love and tomatoes, a personal mail will do the job.

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PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2003 5:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Shin2k wrote:

Anyone got any tips how to make her like me? icon_wink.gif


I am no wizard on human relationships (I'm not in one now so take what I say with a huge grain of salt)

People tend to like people who are like themselves.
"If they are like you they will like you", is not always true but still it bears repeating.


I can't give you tips on how to make girls like you.
You can't make people like you.
What you can do is give people the opportunity to see who you are and either like or dislike you.
You do this by doing what I call, "Dialoging" people - Talking to them about their interests, finding out about who they are what they like what they hate. You do this by finding out who they are.
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